Ten years later, Baradwaj Rangan looks back at the country he left, the country that seems, somehow, so different today.
The morning two determined terrorists, within a span of twenty minutes, brought down a couple of skyscrapers and snapped America’s spine, I was beginning a day of work in a suburb of Chicago. There was no reason to believe that September 11 would be any different from September 10, the Monday that had begun the week. I switched on the computer and scanned my list of things-to-do, but I cannot remember, today, the exact nature of the work I was preparing myself for, or maybe it was one of those weeks following a project deadline, so there was nothing to do but sit in your cubicle and look busy and wait for Friday. It was still summery enough that things could be done that weekend, outdoorsy things. My mother and aunt were visiting from India and weekends were inevitably spent outside to compensate for their imprisonment Monday to Friday, when they would pretend to be content watching videocassettes from the Indian store.
One of these movies was playing when I strode into my home midmorning and surprised my mother. When routine is broken, the first instinct that grabs anyone is that something is wrong, that something has happened. “What is it?” she wanted to know. Something about a terrorist strike, I said. I walked to the television set, turned off the movie, switched to a news channel, and sat down. But for the ticker-tape headlines marching across the bottom like rows of orderly ants and the television channel’s logo in a corner, I might have tuned into another movie, one in which Hollywood’s special-effects wizards had once again demonstrated their peerlessness in blowing things up. Even at work, as my ashen-faced manager told us that there had been a terrorist strike and that there were hints that more was to come and that we should go home, we weren’t quite prepared for what had really happened. Terrorists strap bombs to their bodies and press a trigger and kill heads of state, or they whip out guns and train their firepower on innocents. Who could imagine that terrorists would hijack aircraft and plunge into stately buildings?
It was so unbelievable, so inconceivable that we needed these images on television to give shape and form to what the news anchors were describing, and to confirm that these crumbling smokestacks were once the World Trade Center, which signified New York in the establishing shots of movies and therefore signified – to the rest of the world – America the strong, America the rich, America the beautiful. Here was America the broken, with lives being lost like blood in a hemorrhage. I didn’t know yet that a college-mate who I dropped out of touch with was in one of those planes and that days after the news of his death reached his wife she would end her life. Long ago, back in India, I remember being woken up from bed with the news that Indira Gandhi had been assassinated, and later, that Rajiv Gandhi had been blown to bits. Those, I thought, would be my remember-the-day-Kennedy-was-shot moments, my generation’s touchstones of true tragedy. Here was another and it was far worse.
And seen from today, it appears that things have only gotten worse for America, which is no longer the promised land our forefathers dreamed of attaining, the fruits of their penances. The phrase “America-returned,” so cherished at one time by matchmaking parties and head hunters of multinationals, is now tarnished with the reality that an increasing number of Indians are returning from America, though when I returned, in 2002, the flood was still a trickle. Indians, today, come back because they’re stuck in middle management with little chances of promotion, or because they’re tired of being viewed with suspicion and subjected to more vigilant searching at airports because their skin is brown, or because they know that now they can get everything they want back here, including home-delivered pizza to go with a rerun of The Simpsons. With the right kind of money and the right kind of job, they are realising that India can be America – the perks, after a while, are so much better that you almost stop complaining that you step out of your house and step into shit.
In those respects, even these ten years later, India hasn’t quite become America, and a friend I met recently – a friend who lives in Holland and who said that the people there are so uniformly white and Christian that any outsider is treated coldly. and that when he walks into a store and the attendant walks out and finds that it’s a brown-skinned foreigner her friendly mask freezes automatically – explained that there was a difference between “quality of life” and “standard of living.” The standard of living in India is now almost on par with Europe and America, he claimed, because the differences in salaries are insignificant. But work-life balance and clean urban spaces where you aren’t reluctant to take walks and which don’t flood up after the slightest drizzle – that’s quality of life, he said, and that’s why Indians like living outside India. But after 9/11, after the grim reality check that bad things could happen to them too, that they could be invaded and flattened the way we have been for centuries, he said that that feeling has begun to fade.
In the first years after my return, I wondered often if I’d made a mistake. But those images of terror and those days of bewilderment would flash before me and I would make my peace with my situation. Besides, from America, bad news followed bad news – the banking crisis of a few years ago, the current debt crisis, the rampant unemployment. How these calamities would have impacted my life had I stayed back I cannot say for sure, but my friends, the ones who remained, tell me that things are no longer the same. It is no longer economically advantageous to be there because your dollars aren’t getting converted to untold riches back home, where no one wants your Ferrero Rocher chocolates because they can get them at the store down the street. As for that other factor, quality of life, it’s still an attraction, though one whose cost Indians have begun to question. So what changed, really, after 9/11? After all, bin Laden is dead and America, whose demise he plotted, is still alive. But barely, I think. This is no longer the strong and proud nation it was to millions of Indians. It is tired and scared. Along with the smell of smoke and burning bodies, Americans smelt fear that September morning. Ten years later, that fear is still in the air.
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Raj Balakrishnan
September 10, 2011
Lovely piece Baradwaj. As you friend rightly says, quality of life is lacking in India. The cities are unbelievably dirty.
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Venki
September 10, 2011
It is interesting to read this as a guy who’s come here to the US a month back for education. The US is still a better place for research compared to India. But however, I’d prefer living my career out in India than in the US.
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Rads
September 11, 2011
Eloquent as always.
I see what you say, and I agree. There is fear, but it’s still a free country. I live near DC and just last week the headlines on Wash Post read “minorities become majority” – I somehow have not been subjected to this extra suspicion or frisking because am brown and I am as brown as they come. 🙂
I’ve lived in Europe, and life is good there too.
Am not saying things don’t happen as you noted, but that is not so prevalent as to make us want to move. My sister moved recently coz of a creer impetus her husband got. Sure, things are better back home than when I left in 93, but it isn’t the india we recognize anymore either. So it’s really a very personal call on why a person decides to pack bags. My kids are treated no different, they have friends in all colors and life goes on.
Hearing the bombs go off in Delhi, Mumbai again and again, am actually apprehensive on how safe one is back there? Fear is everywhere, it’s the aftercare and value of life before and after that matters. My 2 cents 🙂
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NullPointer
September 11, 2011
One thing that’s not changed over the last decade is the bit about parents feeling imprisoned during weekdays.
Actually bad roads ,infrastructure,planned urban development and quantifiable things like that by are very much a part of a country’s “Standard of living” . “Quality of life” on the other hand includes standard of living and subjective things like one’s socio-cultural, spiritual well being etc. The thing is Amreeka or any other developed nation still offer a better standard of living but quality of life can be better here or there(depending on what rocks your boat). One can drive through the cleanest roads here and go to an average joe’s/fancy pants restaurant/bat mitzvah/thanskgiving dinner where only the whitest of the whites hang out and still feel disconnected. One can step into shit on a Chennai road and walk over to a Saravana Bhavan or hang out at someone’s golu , have a good time listening to random folks sing with complete disregard to pitch/tone and still feel connected and have an overall better quality of life.
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dipali
September 11, 2011
Beautifully written. I’ve only travelled to the US much after 9/11, and have faced various kinds of immigration/airline security checks. The world has changed from that date, and for the worse, for all concerned. The quantum of hatred and suspicion and demonisation has increased exponentially.
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vijay
September 11, 2011
For all the 9/11 after-effects, one would still feel much safer in NY rather than in Delhi or Mumbai.
This comes across like an almost anti-PRO piece on US. Other than aging parents or kid’s upbringing with strong desi roots, there is pretty much no reason for most people(especially those who have green cards) to return back home. That has always been and still is the case.That might include even some of your friends who might crib about US but would do so sitting in NY or NJ rather in Chennai.
Yes, US has changed a bit since 9/11, but not by that much that you step out of your house everyday and feel it immediately.(recession is a different thing altogether, lets not mix it up with 9/11)
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Man with No Name
September 11, 2011
Reg: “One of these movies was playing when I strode into my home midmorning and surprised my mother.”
Your mother would be astonished and not surprised according to Noah. No? 🙂
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munimma
September 12, 2011
Just your pov, not the state of affairs in most metros here in US. Agree with Rads on that point.
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Chhote saab
September 12, 2011
I agree with Rads and Vijay, but then my view might be biased (as would be yours too) as I am still here in America. I have no idea about being stuck in middle management without promotion as a reason but hopefully those same people will have better luck getting promoted in India through a myriad of bribes and connections. I have not being subjected to the frisking and suspicious looks you mention. I am sure it happens but I believe it happens more based on your name/religion rather than just the color of your skin. Things have changed and there is fear in people (the fear though is more about economy and jobs) but not as much as this piece implies. The thing I am more concerned about is the enormous divide between the Democrats (left) and Republicans (right) – it is like the nation is split right in the middle. I think that is more responsible for America’s woes than anything else.
Anyways, I was just a little surprised by the second half of the piece. It just didn’t seem/sound like you even though it was very eloquent as usual. I am sure you were questioning your decision in the couple of years that followed but I was surprised that 9/11 played such an important part of your decision. I mean don’t get me wrong, I think every Indian who comes here in some corner of their heart dreams of going back but most cannot do it for various reasons and the fact you did it, starting from scratch was amazing and enviable.
However for most people the various reasons for which they left India and came to America still exist. Though after Iraq war, America has become the nation world loves to hate and I was hoping Obama would slowly change it but the fact the slow economic recovery has not allowed that to happen (as nothing succeeds like success !).
As an aside, I think the reason to leave America to go back to India are also still more or less the same – away from family, tough weekdays and winters for parents etc etc. India being on the rise has definitely helped.
I’m sure if I had your writing eloquence I would have able to put across my thoughts better.
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Mickie Menon
September 12, 2011
I loved reading that BR, but I have to agree with Rads. (I left India in ’93 too) In fact, I couldn’t say it better, so am not going to try. Despite all the bad stuff, I am the least ‘scared’ here because I chose to give this country a chance and it has become ‘home’.
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Ravi
September 12, 2011
Days post a project deadline? Was Baradwaj Rangan a techie before he became a critic who won the National Award?
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bran1gan
September 12, 2011
Rads and others: I wasn’t trying to make a point or a case either way. This was intended to be more of a mood piece and not a factual argument. And as Chhote Saab says, it is a biased view and not a balanced argument for India vs the US. Though I do know people who have had really bad experiences…
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Rohan
September 12, 2011
Regarding these weighings of ‘standard of living’ and ‘quality of life’ and so on, my only question is: How can you not want to live in your own country?
Anyone who puts ‘quality of life’ down to how clean the roads are and practicalities like that… surely all that is the Small Stuff? Surely there is more to life than all that?
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Anwar Puttarjee
September 12, 2011
Rangan saab, I would love to know where exactly in Holland your friend has been or is from. I’m born and raised here, but even with the emergence of extreme-right political parties (you may have heard of Geert Wilders and his fascist followers), I’m very proud to be a product of a multicultural country where a lot of people from a variety of cultural background live side-by-side and are very tolerant to each other. Yes, there are some problems, but in the day-to-day practice it’s not like people are scared of each other or mistrust each other. Of course I do not claim to know all of Holland, but at least in Amsterdam and surrounding cities, it’s definitely not the Holland your friend described.
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kathir
September 12, 2011
Bingo rohan..i cant imagine being anywhere out of india although i have being continuously pushed in my profession to move out of india..its more than ‘quality of life’ for me too..
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Mickie Menon
September 12, 2011
‘Quality of life’ is a very subjective issue and worthy of a whole different debate, don’t you think? A good quality of life for some would be based entirely on a sentimental point of view while for others it could be practical, material, and so on. I was born in Kerala, studied in Punjab, College in Bangalore and then the US. All of it tough initially, but the ‘unfamiliar’ always is. All of it turned out to be fantastic experiences, though not without the usual bumps that life comes up with. None of it has been about a ‘search’ for something that was unavailable to me, just the need to widen my horizons and explore something that was completely new. I would say I have an excellent quality of life, not because of where I have lived or live, but because of family and friends and relationships built along the way, be in Kerala or Punjab, Bangalore or New Jersey. I have felt that strong sense of belonging in all these places. Isn’t that the foundation that ultimately we all seek?
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chhote saab
September 12, 2011
Badesaab : I’m sure it wasn’t meant to be factual argument for India Vs USA, but the second half came across as that – it may be me because it is a sensitive subject and a part of my heart always wants me to be in India. So what is stopping me from doing just that – maybe I should pack my bags and uproot and haul my family back. Especially if as Rohan says life is more than the ‘small stuff’. It is. But that’s what Rads put it perfectly – it is a personal call. I’m sure clean roads and practicalities like that are not main reason people leave the country for or not return from America. I think people stay where they have a better chance doing well – for themselves, their family …. If that is in your own country, that’s awesome. The difference between moving back and staying on in your ‘adopted home’ is how settled you are as far as your family is concerned. Bade, I’m sure you know people who have had bad experiences in India too.
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rads
September 12, 2011
Rangan: I understand. I wasn’t riled, but was surprised like munimma was, especially coming from you. The cross a popular writer like yourself carries I guess 🙂
Rohan: It’s simple. The small things matter the most when everything else is balanced. In this case, work, family, life, money. Not getting into a discussion here, but each to their own? I love India. I don’t need to justify my patriotism towards the country. I fight and will stand up for it at every chance I get. I just think I make a better Indian living outside it. That is all.
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rameshram
September 12, 2011
“I just think I make a better Indian living outside it.”
word.
India is like a domineering mother whom you do love, but who doesn’t let you grow out of her definition of you as her “kid”.
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Arun
September 12, 2011
I left India in 2002, post 9/11. That meant I didn’t really see a before/after picture from the fallout of 9/11. Apart from the occasional profiling I have come across at certain airports, I haven’t ever felt treated like a 2nd class citizen (green card processing times & long term stability aside). I have lived in the Washington DC area for 6+ years. There have been several occasions when I have felt always that I have had the freedom to live a very Indian existence and express my Indian-ness. The biggest drawbacks to me are proximity to my immediate family and being able to care for my parents as they get older without completely uprooting them from their comfort zone. I contemplate moving back for this reason and have a lot of trouble coming to terms with dealing with the dysfunctional political & infrastructural situation that shows very little signs of improvement back home. Despite the Democratic vs Republican divide that’s ripping this nation apart, I still have trust the political machinery far more in the U.S than in India. I feel I have just as much democratic freedom here as I ever had back home. I feel like the common man in India is constantly threatened by the corruption back home & have very low confidence in being able to lead a peaceful existence if I return. Average commute times being 1.5+ hours 1-way in most major metros makes me really apprehensive and makes me question whether moving back will give me the time I want to spend with my family justify the primary reason I want to move for. I do realize career compromises will have to be made, but at what cost? And then comes educating your child. Here in the US, living in a decent school district guarantees admission to a good school and healthy environment till college. If western influence is a concern, it is just as much of a concern in India as it is in the U.S. Talking to my old teachers at my Alma Mater P.S.B.B. Chennai, I hear how hard it is to prevent kids from being exposed to nastiness. It has been a 2+ year struggle as I grapple with this decision, not sure if I will ever see a clear tipping point that moves me in one particular direction.
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rameshram
September 13, 2011
Arun, The DC metro/ NOVA area is not America, it’s Saudi Arabia. everyone / business is Arab.
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Anon
September 13, 2011
latest display of post 9-11 racism…
http://shebshi.wordpress.com/2011/09/12/some-real-shock-and-awe-racially-profiled-and-cuffed-in-detroit/
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rads
September 14, 2011
I’m not sure Rangan likes us hijacking this thread this way, but read some and I am in a chatty mood, so will add in and then will call it quits on this topic 🙂
Anon: Not falling for that bait.
RameshRam: um..DC area is not completely Arab. We talking the larger district. VA suburbs – Mclean, Arlington Alexandria, Reston and Loudon and similar distance into MD borders. DC proper is again a very diverse population, and I don’t speak just about businesses.
Arun: Yes. Precisely.
A friend moved to India steeling their minds (incl kids) that “daddy will be a very busy man including weekends” . They plan to move back in two years. IT industry is intense there, but if that’s what rocks your boat then sure.
It’s usually the parents at their old age and their unwillingness to move here (which is understandable) that tips the balance. The generation that’s chosen to move here are stuck in a ‘Trisanku swargam’ 🙂 Our kids are growing here rooted and our roots still are breathing there. We compromise with certain things, we adapt and we live in a place where we are happy and we can sleep well at night.
EOD?
Okay, now back to regular programming and movie reviews! 🙂
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rameshram
September 14, 2011
ok not EVERYONE is arab, but everyone that matters is…
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namika
September 14, 2011
studied in the US and moved back at a time when it was not fashionalble to do so. What keeps me here,howevever small this might seem is the fact that India still is about people..however much we like it or dont.In a day, I get to interact with a wide crossection of people who offer a different point of view-vegetable seller,maid,dhobi,electrician.etc etc and as a writer find a story in everybody.Here,multiple worlds exist and I like that they often collide in the strangest way…recently saw a silk clad maami munching frenchfries at an aruna sairam concert!!-And many of my friends returning from abroad now have created mini suburban americans…gated communities with wide streets(straight out of a stepford wives flick) with palm trees and rows of similar looking houses…as one friend put it…”I can get the best of both worlds(!),they even import their coke(the soft drink I mean)
Somehow after a trip abroad , it really feels good to be back…and that is home!!
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rameshram
September 14, 2011
namika i feel the same way about newport beach.
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Rohan
September 16, 2011
Rads (and others): Nicely put, “small things matter the most when everything else is balanced.” Perhaps you’re right. You’ve mentioned the big things too that are true for people, “work, family, life, money”. For me the biggest thing is to be a part of the country that I was born and grew up in and try to make an active contribution to its betterment. I lived abroad for a few years and that is the greatest disconnect I felt while being there (I had friends, Indian food, cheap overnight flights back home, all that). But the sense of living day in and day out in my own country among my own people is what I missed the most – and what caused me to come back.
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Mickie Menon
September 16, 2011
Interesting how everyone seems just fine exactly where they are.. a case of ‘grass is greenest right where I stand’.
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rameshram
September 16, 2011
Oh Im not “just fine ” in newport beach! I wish I lived on a private island filled with virginal young beauties in grass skirts!
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Prashanth
September 16, 2012
Beautifully written !
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